Rev. Tres Adames, MDiv, BCPC
Pastoral Counselor
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About MeHi, my name is Tres Adames and I am a Master's-level Board Certified Pastoral Counselor (BCPC #0791). I specialize in working with adults and teens dealing with emotional, relational, sexual, and spiritual issues. I also work with those in the LGBTQ+ community and those who are struggling to reconcile their sexuality, sexual identity, and their faith. I have a desire to help others after going through my own spiritual journey of healing and transformation.
I grew up in Peoria and live in the Phoenix area with my gray tabby, Majerle, and English bulldog, Rocky. I enjoy being active through weightlifting and playing sports, as well as doing anything creative. I love living in Arizona and make frequent trips to Disneyland, which I call my other home. My Faith and ApproachI grew up in a Christian home and came to Christ at a young age. I felt the call to ministry when I was 23 years old. Soon after, I went to seminary to become a pastor, but slowly felt God calling me toward the work of pastoral counseling. Rather than leading a congregation, I fell in love with the process of working with people one-on-one, helping people individually navigate their unique journey. My faith and relationship with God is something I treasure very deeply. Though my background and approach is centered on integrating spirituality with overall wellbeing, I welcome people from all faith (and non-faith) backgrounds.
I want you to feel comfortable opening up about anything you are going through. I seek to be nonjudgmental and unshockable as a counselor. I am comfortable discussing difficult topics and have a passion to help others through the angst, struggle, and confusion that often comes with life. I'm excited to be on this journey and am passionate about helping you weave a transformative story of your own. Working with LGBTQ+ Clients of FaithI specialize in working with those struggling to reconcile their sexuality, sexual identity, and their faith. In no way do I provide conversion therapy or any form of counseling that seeks to change a person's sexual orientation or identity.* My goal is to help these clients find congruence with their faith and sexual orientation/identity, understanding that clients come from various backgrounds, and have different perspectives on how that affects their faith and personal future. As a result, some clients of faith may decide to pursue celibacy, while others seek to find a same-sex partner or spouse. I help people find peace with who they are and help them reconcile that with their own faith and relationship with God. I do not and will not offer any type of counseling that seeks to change a person's sexual orientation or identity. Any attempt to change a person's sexual orientation or identity (or a promise that change will occur, either directly or implied) is considered unethical by every major medical association in America. More Resources on LGBTQ+ My Qualifications, Work, and ExperienceI received my Master of Divinity (MDiv) from Wesley Biblical Seminary, and Bachelor of Arts from Asbury University. I am a very active member of the Association for Clinical Pastoral Education (ACPE) and am a Board Certified Pastoral Counselor (BCPC #0791), certified by the American Association of Christian Counselors (AACC) International Board of Christian Care (IBCC) and the Board of Christian Professional and Pastoral Counselors. I am ordained as a Commissioned Minister through the Federation of Christian Ministries.
I also train other clergy in pastoral counseling and mental health first aid through the ACPE Pastoral Care Specialist continuing education program. I have also been a contributing writer and developer of the program since its inception. The program was developed by fellow colleagues of the American Association of Pastoral Counselors (AAPC), which has now consolidated with ACPE. I host and produce a podcast called Ask a Christian Counselor. I am also the host and producer of Spiritual Care Today, the official podcast of The Journal of Pastoral Care & Counseling. I previously served as a Commissioner on the ACPE Psychotherapy Commission for 2020 and 2021 and served as Board Secretary of the Pacific Region of the American Association of Pastoral Counselors (AAPC) from 2017-2019. In the past, I have been on staff as a pastoral counselor for Life Changers Christian Counseling (2013-2019) and Arizona Baptist Children's Services & Family Ministries (2013-2017). I was also previously on faculty in a teaching assistantship at the College of Theology at Grand Canyon University (2012-2014). Additionally, I have over twenty years of pastoral and lay leadership experience in the Free Methodist Church, the Church of the Nazarene, and the United Methodist Church. |
Office Locations
I can meet with clients online via telehealth or in-person at my office in Peoria (9299 W Olive Ave Ste 212 Peoria AZ 85345) or Phoenix (7901 N Central Ave Phoenix AZ 85020)
What's holding you back? You can email us, book an appointment through our online scheduler, or call us at (480)525-7284. Let's start today.
Testimonials
"Great guy! Very relatable, and has been a huge blessing to me, and my mental health! Very talented at helping me navigate through my doubts, and wrestle with my salvation without judgement, or condemnation." —Anthony (Google Review)
Tres was recommended by a friend whose son had met with him - at first, unwillingly, but who later began asking to meet with Tres. Our son had the same experience. Tres appears to have a sense of understanding that helps his clients feel comfortable talking with him. We were personally impressed by Tres' writings posted on his website, which gave us confidence that he would understand our son's issues and be able to help him. Tres also recommended some reading for us that has improved our relationship with our son. Our experience with Tres has been limited to our teenager, but we would highly recommend him to anyone who has a teenager that needs help dealing with the teenage years.
—Anthem (Google Review)
—Anthem (Google Review)
Tres offers thoughtful insight and helpful guidance in assisting with career change and direction. He provides invaluable suggestions about using various tools and atypical approaches to reach prospective employers. I highly recommend him. —Peter (Google Review)
Tres provided excellent care for our child as we struggled through some family issues. He offered solid Christian counseling in a non-judgmental, non-threatening environment. Tres was able to reach our child when we could not. We are very grateful for his help.
—Lisa (Google Review)
—Lisa (Google Review)
I was very uncomfortable with seeing a counselor at first but Tres made me feel like I was just talking to a friend. He was very kind, professional, and extremely knowledgeable. He helped me through one of the hardest times in my life and I couldn't have gotten through it without God, but it also would have been very difficult without his help. Tres always encouraged me to pray and listen to what God is telling me. He has been a great counselor and friend during my difficult situation. I am very grateful to have met him. —Shelly (Yelp Review)
Tres is a unique counselor, especially in his ability to relate to and connect with teens. Tres provides a sound Christian basis in his working with teens, and in a way that isn't overpowering and that is very positive. We would recommend Tres to anyone seeking help, especially with teens.
—Dan G. (Google Review)
—Dan G. (Google Review)
Its only been by the grace of God that we were lead to Tres. With much needed guidance and help in many areas, Tres has been able to help us see God in thru our current situations. And their are many! I would strongly recommend him. And I have worked along side many counselors, psychologist and therapist in my career, but its wonderful when you can hear a godly view on life vs the worlds view on life and how to live it.
—Devon (Google Review)
—Devon (Google Review)
